What is is he waiting for me to text him first?

As an AI language model, I don't have access to information about specific individuals and their behaviors, thoughts, or intentions. However, in general, whether someone is waiting for you to text them first can depend on various factors such as their personality, communication style, relationship dynamics, the context of your previous interactions, and so on.

Some possible reasons why someone might be waiting for you to text them first could be:

• They are shy or introverted and don't feel comfortable initiating conversations.
• They want to test your interest in them and see if you're willing to make an effort to connect.
• They are busy or preoccupied with other things and don't prioritize texting.
• They prefer taking turns or maintaining a balance of power in the communication.
• They feel that you often initiate conversations, so they want to reciprocate and show that they care.
• They are unsure about your relationship status or feelings towards them, and they don't want to come across as pushy or needy.
• They want to see if you have something important or interesting to say before responding.

Ultimately, the best way to know why someone is waiting for you to text them first is to talk to them directly and ask for their perspective. Communication and honesty are key elements of any healthy relationship, and avoiding assumptions or guessing games can save you both time and energy.